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A Shade Of Pen

In the dead of the night

When the world is fast asleep

I try and shut my eyes

but with a pop dey open wide

What is it that  doesn’t let me sleep?

What is it that prevents me from leaping to the land of dreams?

I try and think of a dozen things

But all I see is you my PRINCE.

For too long now I have kept it in my heart

I have been loving you from the very start

Yet I fear I know not why

If u would ever ask “will you be mine!”

Another week of sleepless night

I want to ask you out though it doesn’t sounds right

Everytime you see me you smile and go

I get torn amidst emotions as I die with joy at having seen you

but cry because  that is all you do.

This time I called him…

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Ten things men need to understand about women

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So one often hears this comment from men, that “Women are too complicated to understand”. That is a different story however though that women often feel that all men are the same. Here is a small initiative from my side to help guys understand girls, by posting ten important things they should know about them:

  1. Most women often work on reverse psychology mode, i.e.,when they say they are fine, they are actually not fine at all. So don’t just leave it at that, and make sure she is genuinely fine.
  2. Not all women need to be impressed by buying them materialistic stuff and expensive items. If that is what impresses her, she is not worth your expense at all. Don’t sweat it, just be yourself and let her like you and know you for the way you are.
  3. Have a heart of gold, be a man of your words and also…

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choices we make.

I mean think about it, on twitter you like someone’s profile picture or tweets, you follow them, they follow you back, you start favouriting and retweeting each other, and the DM-ing begins, you’l become great friends and the convo shifts to whatsapp, what say a new friendship begins. and you have a new favourite person. Now if you look back and think What if you hadn’t followed that person back? he/she wouldn’t have been able to DM you, and this friendship wouldn’t have happened!! how much of a difference it would have made in your life???

These last few months i have realised its all about CHOICES.

It is really all about the choices you make and people around you make..life is the result of these choices which effects you mentally, physically and socially. Destiny makes your path cross with various people..it all depends whether they or you communicate with each other. Most of the times we base our judgments on people depending on religion, jobs, personalities, and also definitely  thinking what other people would think if they saw me with someone like this. eg: if they are a doctor, everyone wants to get to know them but if they are a maid, why should i talk to you?

We don’t care enough to get to know the other person much unless they make an impression on us in someway. and sometimes because people are just jerks. and sometimes because you just don’t have enough time. if you think about it everyone has a story of why they are like that,, or what made them into being the person they are right now. 

And really speaking every new person you meet, good or bad, whether they stay in your life forever or just for a while they always teach you something new about yourself you didn’t know or leave you with a life lesson.

so meet new people, make new friends, don’t be scared of being hurt, or making mistakes,forgive people easily, don’t let people to take you for granted..don’t trust easily and don’t get too attached to anyone. people change. Its all part of life. and always keep your door open for all the new opportunities and people life throws your way.


i hope this “life – people – choices” rant made sense to you guys. because if it did do leave a comment would love to hear your thoughts. 🙂 

My Facebook Romeos ;)

so when random people send you facebook friend requests, fail english, stalkerism, real people or not? none of it matters,,,only “love and frandship!!”

Conversation started 6 December 2012
06/12/2012 19:41

Nice Name… May I know the meaning of your name????

Conversation started 26 December 2012
26/12/2012 19:16

Hi how are you? Wanna be friends? if yes thn do reply

Conversation started 12 April 2012
12/04/2012 23:02

I usually don’t go through
other’s profiles, but ur profile
caught my eye.
U seem to be an interesting person
I want 2 be friends
with u, but I avoided sending u a
direct request coz I don’t want u too be irritated.
So, if its ok with
U, can we be friends ?

Conversation started 29 March 2012
Syed Ghous
29/03/2012 14:31

hie there
how u doing??
we barely know each other but… PlzZz doN’T mind i mean janab ur soOo sweet
nice display picture
Please don’t examine any wrong meaning of my communication.

Conversation started 12 January 2011
Abdul Qadir
12/01/2011 18:27

hi, this is abdulqadir from salumber (rajasthan) looking for cultured dawoodi bohra girl i saw ur profile on dawoodi bohra singles if any further details add me on facebook or email : abdulqadir****@yahoo.com
mobile:+91969480****. thnx alot

Conversation started 14 December 2011
14/12/2011 11:42

hiiiii I saw ur like channel v india nd i dnt y i feel
like talking to u t8 y snding this msg just wnt be ur
frnd if u dnt jst rpy me iam snding this msg only u i
dnt knw wht special in u so
plzplzplzplzplzplzplzplzplzplzpl rpyyyyyy
plzzzzzzzzzzzz nd i knw ur online right now plzzz rpyy
Trust me plzzz nd rpy wht whtever ur rpyz is i ll w8
plzzz dnt make me w8 plzzzzzzzzzz
Plz Plz
Plz Pla
Plz Plz
Plz Plz plz
if u dnt mind can i snd u frnd req i knw iam stanger
but trust me i promiss i ll nt break ur trust if break ur
trust than del me I ll nt like ur pic ni wallpost no commment i just talk u

Conversation started 18 November 2010
18/11/2010 21:57

hi how r u can we be frz what u do reply

Conversation started 16 October 2010
محمد عويس
16/10/2010 18:32

hi Alefiyah how are u ……! hope u fi9 ….wanna friendship with me …..bcoz i need to some talk imporaent with u

Conversation started 24 September 2010
24/09/2010 13:57

hii..will u be my frnd here..pls accept me in ur list

Conversation started 15 September 2010
Muhämmäd H
15/09/2010 16:01

How Are You ? Where you From ?
well nice Pix
take care

Conversation started 17 April 2010
Facebook User
17/04/2010 19:04

I’m Richard b ,it nice to see you on fb.
i saw your picture (u re pretty smashing lady) and I’ll Like to know more about you, because I’m new here and i’m looking for a good friend,lover and good relationship too. and also like to read from u soon
And if u care to talk to me u can send me a mail on yahoo mail and here is my id.. Richard2biluv@yahoo.com …
You have a lovely day.bye
Richard !!!!

Conversation started 4 March 2010
Jaanu Koolflameboy
04/03/2010 09:50

hi how are u … whts ur yahoo id to cht with u ?

Conversation started 2 March 2010
02/03/2010 08:25

would u be my frnd
hey alefiyah I was new to the facebook, so I need a friend …. much to increase my knowledge

i found this amazing website scoopwhoop.com, they are incredibly hilarious! they had done a post on “50 incredibly creepy messages from Facebook Romeos” which (made me realise i could make my own blog post on the same topic) you could read here —-> http://www.scoopwhoop.com/story.aspx?menuid=2&contentid=45#sthash.COg0LX1L.RzgYf6UN.dpbs ,, do not skip it..its epic!!!

alefiyah it is!

so it struck me yesterday, being anonymous is stupid,,,my name's Alefiyah. :-)
now just incase your wondering so what does alefiyah mean??? many people have asked me that question...and sometimes i myself im confused.
in my religion, whenever a new born is born, the moula/priest is asked to name the kid. And he gave me the name Alefiyah. which apparently means ERECT posture. it basically means like how humans have a erect posture compared to animals who stand on four and are bent.makes sense? ( i know ur laufin...i laufed lilke mad when iheard it too..but its true :-p ) u must be thinking WTF!!! why would anyone give such a name to a person??? lol i have no clue... :-p

rather then explaining to people what my name really means, i just tell them i don't know :-p so they sit to tell me wht could possibly b the meaning.
according to the arabs, who can never pronounce my name properly being brought up in the middle east, sometimes they call me ALFIYAH, which means thousand.

the ones who can pronounce my name, tell me it is the first and last letter of the arab alphabets. because "Alif" is the first and "ya" is the last. and well my name is pronounced sumtin like that "Alifya"

well if you google it, google says my name means beautiful. [i luv u google for this :)]

so anyways guys, this is the story behind my name.. i hate it whenever anyone spells it wrong... i have alot of nicknames, people call me Alef, alefi, alfi, aloo,, once upon a time someone use to even call me mafia... -.-

enough of ranting for today.. luv u people for always reading my blog... :-) - xoxo alefiyah