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choices we make.

I mean think about it, on twitter you like someone’s profile picture or tweets, you follow them, they follow you back, you start favouriting and retweeting each other, and the DM-ing begins, you’l become great friends and the convo shifts to whatsapp, what say a new friendship begins. and you have a new favourite person. Now if you look back and think What if you hadn’t followed that person back? he/she wouldn’t have been able to DM you, and this friendship wouldn’t have happened!! how much of a difference it would have made in your life???

These last few months i have realised its all about CHOICES.

It is really all about the choices you make and people around you make..life is the result of these choices which effects you mentally, physically and socially. Destiny makes your path cross with various people..it all depends whether they or you communicate with each other. Most of the times we base our judgments on people depending on religion, jobs, personalities, and also definitely  thinking what other people would think if they saw me with someone like this. eg: if they are a doctor, everyone wants to get to know them but if they are a maid, why should i talk to you?

We don’t care enough to get to know the other person much unless they make an impression on us in someway. and sometimes because people are just jerks. and sometimes because you just don’t have enough time. if you think about it everyone has a story of why they are like that,, or what made them into being the person they are right now. 

And really speaking every new person you meet, good or bad, whether they stay in your life forever or just for a while they always teach you something new about yourself you didn’t know or leave you with a life lesson.

so meet new people, make new friends, don’t be scared of being hurt, or making mistakes,forgive people easily, don’t let people to take you for granted..don’t trust easily and don’t get too attached to anyone. people change. Its all part of life. and always keep your door open for all the new opportunities and people life throws your way.

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i hope this “life – people – choices” rant made sense to you guys. because if it did do leave a comment would love to hear your thoughts. 🙂 

Sitting is KILLING you!

Sitting is KILLING you!

NOTE: According to Research, Sitting in the 135* position is the best biomechanical position for the  back, it relaxes the back muscles completely, BUT it is a horrible position for the Neck!!  Sit straight with your lower back supported with a pillow, don’t slouch forward!

Read about Laptop Thigh here – https://mischievouseyez.wordpress.com/2013/02/23/laptop-thigh-or-toasted-skin-syndrome/

PS: Found it on Pinterest!

Quote#27 – Each and every relationship

Quote#26 – Each and every relationship in life is an opportunity for self-discovery and soul-growth. Relationships are mirror images of our own lives they reflect how we feel and treat ourselves, and how we react and respond to various situations around us.

Read the whole post here – Finding Ourselves Through Others, Written by Raimy – http://creative-guru.com/2013/02/20/finding-ourselves-through-others/

Stop Child Abuse!

i just wrote this post today, and the daily prompt prompted about childhood. So felt like linking this post!

http://dailypost.wordpress.com/2013/02/09/daily-prompt-childhood/

I found this video through facebook, It brought tears to my eyes. I know its in Hindi, and maybe you guys won’t understand it, But do watch it!

il tell u the meanings of the important words, the family is playing Dumb Charades, im assuming everyone knows that game, where through your actions you make the other person guess which movie your talking about.

So basically, The child is trying to tell his parents something.

Chacha – Uncle/ Father’s brother, Mere – mine, Kapde – clothes, Nikal -remove

The child was telling his parents that – Uncle was removing my clothes. And then he breaks down crying!

Child Abuse is the worse thing ever that can happen to any child. It can be done by a stranger, or even by your family relative and even by your own brother. yes. There are some sick bastard minds in this world. It is pretty creepy. I know so many of my friends who have at once in their life been abused by some stranger or relative.

The worse part about being abused by a family relative is your not sure whether you should tell your parents about it or not. All these thoughts go through your mind, will they believe you? What if they don’t?

Sometimes the parents just don’t believe it or are in denial that my brother can never do something like this to my child. Or they feel the child is making up stories.

Sometimes the relative can even go to the extent of blackmailing the child, that if you don’t do this il harm your parents. So the child does it quietly and suffers through it alone. He’s a child he wouldn’t want his parents to be in danger.

It has happened to me by a stranger. i haven’t been raped. Just been touched in the wrong places. i was dumbstruck. what is happening to me. he touched me and went away. I didn’t know how to react. I was in the 6th grade and was totally freaking out!I did tell my parents. I was terrorized, I was so scared of stepping outside the house. Even to go to a neighbour’s house in the next building would take my parents a lot of convincing.They would have to literally prepare me and i would take 1hour convincing myself nothing will happen. No one is going to come after you.
My mom told me if anyone comes after you again, SCREAM, yell, hit that person with whatever you have in your hand, run away from there.

And tht man being a jerk did come after me again after a month. He even marked my school bus timings, one day while coming back, he followed me into the building, and came towards me told me “hi how are you” and brought his hand forward to do something, before he could touch me anywhere, i just YELLED and sreamed at the top of my lungs! so that the nearest neighbour would open the door to check what is happening outside. And this man freaked out, and ran away. I never saw his face again!

Guys please, explain this to your kids. Please listen to their silence. Protect them. If they are trying to tell you something, hear them out. Sometimes its difficult for a child to talk to his parents about things. Do not keep your relationship like that. Make your child your bestfriend such that he/she is able to come and tell you anything like this in life. Explain to your children, that if anyone comes and does something like this to you, he should tell you immediately. Make your daughter keep pepper spray with her (i personally believe that is a very good idea). Don’t allow your child to suffer through this alone. This world is filled with all types of sick people.  We need to protect our younger ones.

Thankyou for Reading!! – xoxo