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choices we make.

I mean think about it, on twitter you like someone’s profile picture or tweets, you follow them, they follow you back, you start favouriting and retweeting each other, and the DM-ing begins, you’l become great friends and the convo shifts to whatsapp, what say a new friendship begins. and you have a new favourite person. Now if you look back and think What if you hadn’t followed that person back? he/she wouldn’t have been able to DM you, and this friendship wouldn’t have happened!! how much of a difference it would have made in your life???

These last few months i have realised its all about CHOICES.

It is really all about the choices you make and people around you make..life is the result of these choices which effects you mentally, physically and socially. Destiny makes your path cross with various people..it all depends whether they or you communicate with each other. Most of the times we base our judgments on people depending on religion, jobs, personalities, and also definitely  thinking what other people would think if they saw me with someone like this. eg: if they are a doctor, everyone wants to get to know them but if they are a maid, why should i talk to you?

We don’t care enough to get to know the other person much unless they make an impression on us in someway. and sometimes because people are just jerks. and sometimes because you just don’t have enough time. if you think about it everyone has a story of why they are like that,, or what made them into being the person they are right now. 

And really speaking every new person you meet, good or bad, whether they stay in your life forever or just for a while they always teach you something new about yourself you didn’t know or leave you with a life lesson.

so meet new people, make new friends, don’t be scared of being hurt, or making mistakes,forgive people easily, don’t let people to take you for granted..don’t trust easily and don’t get too attached to anyone. people change. Its all part of life. and always keep your door open for all the new opportunities and people life throws your way.

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i hope this “life – people – choices” rant made sense to you guys. because if it did do leave a comment would love to hear your thoughts. 🙂 

Confession Pages !

Everyday i come check my blog, read you other people’s blogs, but when it comes to writing up a post..i’m blank now a days!!! I have absolutely no idea what to write. Should i write about my life? Should i write about my emotions? Should i wrote about how annoyed and frustrated i am! Its too lame n maybe you guys would laugh at all my reasons or get super bored!! Seriously!! So Anyhoo i finally decided to write about Confession pages!! Something which i was super excited about during March!! A few months back it was “THE” thing. each and every college had one on facebook. People confessing hidden secrets, crushes, their hate n love for one another, appologizing.everything anonymously. Nobody even knew who the Admins of the page were. if you asked me two months back, it was the COOLEST thing ever!!! It was so cool, that in between my final exams..Infact one day before my Bioengineering paper.. i created a Confession page with my friend. You see we both use to study together on Skype – the voice call. The reason for doing that was so that we could focus together and discuss imp stuff of the chapter,, finish studying chapters as soon as possible. BUT Bioengineering was so crap, we didn’t have a syllabus. The proffessor wouldn’t ask anything in his exams from what he taught us. Our seniors told us that he asks general knowledge stuff, we might have to google up stuff. So basically the day before the exam, it was like a free day. we were sitting jobless and useless. Not a bit nervous for the exam. And our college had no confession page. And i had this crazyy idea all of a sudden. my mind went like “LETS MAKE ONE!!”. so after one hour of googling, and finding out how to create one and remain anonymous, finally our page was UP!! 😀 My friend and I we were so excited for it!! i have a “fake account” on facebook [yes, its good to have one at times 😛 maybe il write another blog post about it some other time 😉 ] so through it we sent out invites to almost everyone in our college to like it. And my friend through her own account she did it. We had decided if anyone asked her about hte page “she would just say, No, the admin sent me a msg asking me to send out invites.” 😛 And on our first day we got around 150 likes!!! We were like wow! we felt like we were doing the most awesomest thing ever! We felt like finally we did something BIG!

But really speaking being the Admin of a confession page is fun at times and sometimes it can just a Pain!!! Especially if your that kind of an Admin who doesn’t want to spread wrong rumours, who doesn’t wanna start fights through the page, who doesn’t wanna give out wrong impressions about people..We didn’t want any girl or guy to feel insulted or embarassed through the page. Trust me through this page we learnt a lot about our college students. They could post anonymously made them super rude, the openly described hate for one another, crushes, hate for hte college, we would post them. Especially once, we had posted sumtin negative which sounded really funny to us. After a day, we got a message from the person who it was about, that this post has Ruined his life..and begged us to delete it. We were really feeling horrible, instantly deleted it. Thats when we started being double careful about what we were posting. For the first month, our page was the talk of the college. People loved it. they messaged us to keep it going till forever. Our seniors, thought the page was a good way to reconnect with their old college memories. Infact a week later, we found teachers liking our page! And we thought 2-3 Confessions sounded very professor like! Infact students then started talking about professors leaking out papers, their funny indian accents, who they thought could be dating..the way they teach in classes, whose classes were the best. the ones which were super boring..After reading everyone’s comments and msgs on the page, if we would see them in college, we would recognize them. It was like we literally knew each and every person now. it sucked that we couldn’t go around telling people we are the admins. People were very curious. Every guess of theirs was not even a bit close.
For me and my friend this page was the only interesting thing happening during the exams and it was a good break from the crazy medical studying!! We became very careful so that nobody would get into trouble. We started putting stars in every one names.. eg- if it was dedicated to Sally..we would edit it like this –> S**ly,, most of the times people would guess who the confession was for..and most of the times they just wouldn’t.

Infact other college confession pages were fun to read too. But compared to ours, things were more openly said about people,,many girls and guys were targetted n made fun of openly..sometimes it really sucked..if someone wrote about me stuff like what i read written about them..i wouldn’t be able to go to college the next day!!
I have confessed to a crush on his college confession page..sadly he didn’t believe it. 😥 He thought it was one of his other friends joking around.. I guess thats the smart thing to believe. Well its good he never found out it was me., it would have been embarassing cause he is in my friend list on facebook.. what if he questioned me about it, i really wouldn’t know what to say! 😳

Anyhoo, now confession pages aren’t a big deal anymore..the excitement for it has died down..and people have better things to do in life.. which is a good thing. The more active a confession page is, the more fights and trouble it causes in people’s life i have learnt. And people really hate being topic of gossip. They don’t mind bitching, n hating on other people, but when it comes to them they just can’t take it!! And it takes a second to ruin someone’s image or just break up a  strong relationship. We have tried our best to avoid this among people. After all the aim of our page was aimed at being a fun page. I hope our confession posts never harmed anyone. 

Why am i so stupid?

Whenever you come back into my life, every time i wish now you must have changed.But your still the same. It sucks that i use to consider you the most awesomest person on this planet, But to you i was always just another useless peice of shit. it sucks that whenever you come back into my life, every time those feelings come back too. Why do you pretend to be innocent and strike a conversation, when really you just have other thoughts in your head? Rich guys are rich. But why do you not give a damn about a girls feelings. The stuff they show in movies, the rich guy falls for the simple girl, and its true love. Its all BULLSHIT. It sucks that all you care is about appearances.You don’t like the clothes i wear. Thats the barrier between us. You don’t know how much u hurt me when you said “because of your clothes.” It shows your mentality. It sucks that you want to call this a special  friendship,But to the world you want to show you don’t know me. I know you only just want to play around. It sucks that im stupid enough to fall for ur shit everytime your back in my life. Have you thought that the way you treat me, what if some dude treated your sister like that?? Or is the problem me? Why am i stupid enough to think i could change you into a better person? I should have just ignored you from the first day you messaged me. It sucks that despite the way you treat me like shit, i still believe there is some good in u. And someday u will change.

BLOG PARTY REMINDER!!

The party is still on for Saturday. 😀  I found all these photos from Google, so wanted to share them –

I  just have to say if you think your handwriting sucks or is the worst, and if your shy to send it in, i would say that doesn’t matter!!!

I believe your handwriting is your OWN PERSONAL UnIQUE FONT!! 😉

And the more messy it is, the more fun the party will be 😛

i hope this makes sense!

I really hope you all do take part, i would love it!!

To know how to take part, follow the link to the original Blog Party post here:

https://mischievouseyez.wordpress.com/2013/02/12/blog-party/

Here are some Jokes, i found on google, –

lol A Dr’s handwriting ONLY a pharmacist can read!!!

I’m waiting for your emails – xoxo

Narcissist Changed! :-O

Previously i had written about a friend who we (me and another friend) think is supposed to have Narcissistic Personality Disorder. And we used to get really annoyed with her Nature and attitude towards things.

In December, we had a huge argument with her about how we hate her Bugged attitude towards us.

Recently since Jan, since uni reopened the NPD friend – well il give her a fake name – ABC.

yeah so ABC has CHANGED.

She hasn’t been bugged even one day, She has become the most kindest person ever. She helps everyone. now a days there is a good side to her too. She’s happy in life. She loves making fun of things, even things which relate to her.

I don’t know wht or how these changes happened! It makes me feel guilty about the previous post i had written. You could read it here – (https://mischievouseyez.wordpress.com/2012/12/30/narcisstic-personality-disordernpd-powers-of-a-narcissist/)

we like to think She changed, because of our argument! and it has changed her into a better person!

We use to think if her attitude remained like this for the rest of her life, she would never have any friends and nobody would like her.

I mean the NPD symptoms, a few r still there, they are mild though – But I am really happy she has a new good positive nature, no more manipulating, i don’t feel like i’m suffering in her friendship anymore  and i hope she maintains this for the rest of her life.

😀

If you want to read more about NPD,  – Check out this blog: http://lynettedartycross.com/2012/12/30/top-ten-signs-that-youre-living-with-a-narcissist-2/